Proposals are no longer just for the engaged couple.
A quick Etsy search for “wedding party proposal” yields more than 100,000 results, from personalized tote bags to macrame keychains to monogrammed tumblers.
Depending on the size of your wedding party, a $35 proposal box like this one could run you hundreds of dollars (especially if you have to ship to out-of-state friends).
As cute and fun as a proposal could be, it’s worth considering whether to invest in it, especially if you’re planning a wedding on a budget. And keep in mind, there will be other opportunities to show your wedding party your appreciation, so you may want to save your gift-giving money for that!
If you’ve got your heart set on proposing to your people, here are 10 ideas under $10!
Wedding party proposal ideas
1. Canva Video Collage
You’ve been by my side for 15 years. I wouldn’t have it any other way on my wedding day! Will you be my bridesmaid?
Cost: FREE
- Gather up your favorite photos and videos of you and your friend.
- Click “Create New Design” on Canva, and type “Video” in the search bar, then select the first option that pops up.
- Upload your photos and videos by clicking “Uploads” in the lefthand menu bar and “Upload Files”.
- Place one image or video on each page in the project, and adjust the duration for the images to flip faster or slower.
- Add some text at the end to pop the question.
- Layer on a memorable song to give it a little flare.
- Grab the link and share it!
Here’s an example of a video I made of my husband and I’s honeymoon.
2. Heart of NC Weddings Magazine
Time to start planning the big day! Will you be my bridesmaid?
Cost: FREE if picked up in person; $10 if shipped
This annual publication is PACKED with wedding inspiration. Pair it with a hand-written note, and your friends will surely be excited to start dreaming up your big day with you!
3. Music Playlist & Evite
You’ve been with me through all my Eras. Will you be my bridesmaid?
Cost: Varies by design, but typically less than $3 each on Paperless Post
Curate a playlist to hype up your wedding party for the planning process! If you create it on Apple Music, you can share it via text message. You could also link to it in an Evite, print out a QR code or create a tiny URL to include in a handwritten note.
4. Crystals
As I manifest my dream wedding, I’d be grateful to have your positive energy surrounding me! Will you be my bridesmaid?
Cost: $5.95/each
Crystals are a small but tangible way to show your friends your appreciation. You can get everyone the same stone, like this rose quartz tumble stone, which represents unconditional love, happiness, and passion. Or, you can choose a different crystal for each of your friends.
5. Animal Crackers & Ring Pops
Get ready to party! Will you be my bridesmaid?
Cost: $6.50/gift
Nostalgic and delicious! What could be better? Pair a box of animal crackers with a ring pop, and tuck them into a simple gift bag with some tissue paper and a card.
6. Luggage Tag
Pack your bags, I’m getting hitched! Will you be my bridesmaid?
Cost: $3-$5/each
If you’re planning a destination wedding, or if your wedding party lives out of state, send them a personalized luggage tag for their flight. The great thing about this gift is that they can use it over and over again!
7. Coffee Beans
Fuel for wedding season! Will you be my bridesmaid?
Cost: $7-$10/gift
Make this gift special by selecting beans from a local roaster, like these beans from Bean Traders in Durham, NC, which sell for $10/half pound.
You could also purchase a box of Keurig pods, package them in a tulle drawstring gift sack, and place it inside a mug. (TJ Maxx and Home Goods sell lots of cute mugs for less than $10!)
8. Incense
It’s been a slow burn, but I’m finally engaged! Will you by my bridesmaid?
Cost: $2-$8/gift
A gift to tickle the senses, these incense are cruelty- and toxin-free, hand-rolled, and 100% organic. They also come in super cute packaging! You can even pair them with an incense burner like this one, or another one that reflects your friends’ styles and personalities.
9. Hand Lotion
Keep those hands manicure-ready! Will you be my bridesmaid?
Cost: $8.95-$11/each
This is my absolute favorite hand cream because it’s so luxurious! You can buy 3 for $33 (I know, I know, that comes to more than $10 each, but that’s how much I like this lotion!). Of course, you can purchase less expensive and equally as lovely lotions from Bath & Body Works, such as this Champagne Toast body cream.
10. Whistle Keychain
For the dress sale! Will you be my bridesmaid?
Cost: $1.80/each
OK, so this one’s only for FRIENDS fans. IYKYK. But it’s practical, especially for women! (Can never be too safe out there, ladies.) You could clip these gold whistles to cute lanyards to give them some extra flair.
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